Falling in love is easy. Staying in love, being committed to each other, is a bit more difficult. Ever wonder if people can stay together for good...like people in love? Is it even possible for two people to stay happy together forever?
Yesterday, Andy Stanley shared with us that the plan to stay in love was given over 2000 years ago. In John 13:34, Jesus said, "A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another." If you are not careful, you will miss it. Jesus takes the word "love" that is usually used as a noun and makes it as a verb. Love (verb/action word) one another.
You can watch part one of "Staying in Love" here:
The Juno DilemmaAndy also gave us homework.
1. Read the following verses every day in preparation for part two of "Staying in Love."
Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others. In your relationships with one another, have the same attitude of mind Christ Jesus had: Who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage; rather, he made himself nothing by taking the very nature of a servant, being made in human likeness. And being found in appearance as a human being, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to death— even death on a cross! -Philippians 2:3-8
2. Answer the following questions (Andy recommended that you work through these questions alone):
What is one thing you can do to show someone close to you that you value him or her above yourself?
What is one specific way you could show interest in the things that are most important to someone you love?
What act of service could you do for someone you love that would come as a shock to him or her?
What emotions surface when you think about acting on these ideas?
What keeps you from making these ideas habits in your relationship?
What would you do differently this week if your goal were to actively love the person you are closest to the way he or she desires?
Making love a verb,
Bobby